To reduce defensive behavior when communicating with someone, start with identifying your triggers and learning to control your emotions. What are you feeling and where do you feel it in your body? Is your heart racing? Is your body tense? Is your mind trying to come up with a counter attack? ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Take some time to practice deep breathing. This counteracts the flight or fight response by activating the parasympathetic nervous system. It also allows you to slow down your racing mind and respond in a more effective manner . ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Buy Yourself Time. Wait before you react. Allow the adrenaline to go down and gather your thoughts. Let the other person talk and use this time to practice slow breathing and consider how you would want to respond. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Stop Retaliating and Genuinely Listen. Try to listen to the other person’s points and allow yourself to see where they are coming from. Distance yourself from the assumption that the other person is wrong. If you are absolutely sure the other person is wrong, there is still a way to explain your side without completely dismissing the other person’s perspective. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
Learn How to Take Criticism. One strategy is to see criticism as a sign of the other person’s belief in your abilities. Instead of taking it personally, strategize how you can benefit from it. If you don’t believe the criticism to be true or constructive, simply thank the person and walk away. ⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀
I encourage you to consciously try to make an effort to not worry about other peoples’ biased opinions of you. Be secure in who you are so you don’t feel the need to be validated by anyone else besides yourself.
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